Kristi grew up in North Dakota and attended the University of Minnesota at Moorhead where she completed her undergraduate studies in emotional and behavioral disorders. She moved to Arkansas where she later completed her masters in educational administration. Her heart and life have focused for many years on working with hurting kids that have been through much trauma and helping them to realize their potential and to overcome the difficulties that they were experiencing. She was married in 1993, and she and her husband had 3 children: PK who was born in 1995, Kylee was born in 1996, and MiKayla was born in 2000. After the deaths of her husband in 2011 and her son in 2013, her heart reaches out now to comfort those who are walking through the grieving process. She writes and speaks on how to deal with grief and pain whether it is your own or that of others, how to find hope, peace, and healing in the midst of trauma and tragedy, and tries to motivate others to live with no excuses and no regrets.
Happy birthday to my son. Oh how I miss you. I have come to enjoy this tradition of writing a letter to you on your birthday. I sit with tears pouring down my face as I write on my laptop and look at pictures on my phone remembering… remembering the joy that you brought to…
Do you ever feel alone, abandoned, or broken? Do you ever wonder who cares about what is happening in your life or about what you are going through? Do you wonder if anyone knows how much you are hurting or how lonely you feel? I want you to remember that no matter how you are…
My dearest PK, This has now become a tradition for me. As I move into your birthday each year, then I set aside time to write you a letter reflecting on the past year. It is also a time where I just sit in the moment of how much I love and miss you and…
Hello dear friends. I have so many thoughts on my mind and so many feelings from this past week on my heart tonight. Prayerfully, I will be able to express them clearly to you. This past week, I have had the honor of sitting with so many who are hurting and grieving. I have watched…
My heart is with all of you who are walking through grief and struggling with pain during this time. Currently for me, it is 3 am Christmas morning. As I reflect on our journey this very early Christmas morning, then my heart and mind wander back to the early days of when I first started…
Dear Kirk, I truly cannot believe that I am two hours away from the 10th anniversary of the day you died. When I look at all that has happened in the last ten years then in some ways it feels like you have been gone for even longer than that. I still remember the events…
8 years later- June 26th … Each year on the anniversary of PK’s death we attempt new adventures and enjoy God’s beautiful creation as we celebrate the very precious time that we had with him. On the first anniversary of PK’s death we were at home, and I wrote pages and pages as I relived…
Happy birthday to my sweet son. PK, words are not capable of describing how much I love and miss you. As I reflect on your birthday this year, my heart is filled with so many things. My heart overflows with gratitude for every moment that I had the joy and privilege of spending with you.…
I love the title of this song by Tauren Wells. Each time since the first time that I heard this song, my heart has just filled with hope as I listened to the beautiful music and to the message of this song. It is full of hope. Hope that is so desperately needed by us…
As we look around our world today, we see many faces of grief and pain. Many families and friends are hurting and are in need of comfort and hope. Steve, a friend of mine and someone who I worked with for many years, died after an intense cancer battle on August 13th. It was just…