Kristi grew up in North Dakota and attended the University of Minnesota at Moorhead where she completed her undergraduate studies in emotional and behavioral disorders. She moved to Arkansas where she later completed her masters in educational administration. Her heart and life have focused for many years on working with hurting kids that have been through much trauma and helping them to realize their potential and to overcome the difficulties that they were experiencing. She was married in 1993, and she and her husband had 3 children: PK who was born in 1995, Kylee was born in 1996, and MiKayla was born in 2000. After the deaths of her husband in 2011 and her son in 2013, her heart reaches out now to comfort those who are walking through the grieving process. She writes and speaks on how to deal with grief and pain whether it is your own or that of others, how to find hope, peace, and healing in the midst of trauma and tragedy, and tries to motivate others to live with no excuses and no regrets.
Before I start the story of what I experienced when we had a suicide in our family, I am going to begin this blog with a request. This has been a very painful and difficult journey for our family. As we have talked about before, we all grieve differently. Knowing this truth, I would like…
This morning, MiKayla and I drove to the community where my brother-in-law preaches and went to his church. We are able to attend at different times and always enjoy hearing the message that he shares. I have had the privilege of hearing Alonza preach for years, and just like today, after hearing his message, I…
I could not believe that it was my baby girl’s senior prom. Prom season has been such a fun season for my two daughters. Both of my girls have loved the times of shopping for their prom dresses and the whole prom experience. Prom has definitely been a special time for us all. MiKayla’s senior…
In grief, we miss those that we lost so much. Sometimes, during those painful times, we have the blessing of being able to connect with someone else who is going through similar pain. I want to share two examples of two women, Delores and Stephanie, who have become dear friends of mine through our shared…
The Kirk ladies are back in puppy season 🙂 This is our third puppy season that we have had the opportunity to share together. In a previous blog on animals, I shared how I grew up in a family that was having german shepherd puppies when I was young. It was always a happy season…
On February 13th, I had the great honor of sitting down with the Cox family. Their sweet family came over to my house, and I sat with my laptop as they so lovingly invited me in to their family time. They shared about Brenten, his life, and about their precious family. It will be a…
I love basketball tournament season! I love to see teams that others had written off surprise the viewers and capture the victories! I love the high school tourneys, March Madness in our college tourneys, and the NBA playoffs. For our family, we have been blessed to be able to have some exciting tourney seasons. This…
This week marked the end of my daughter MiKayla’s basketball career. I watched as tears poured down her face as she shot her last free throw. Her body shook as she sat on the bench as the final seconds ticked off the clock.Tears poured down my face as she left the basketball court for the…
Fears come in many forms and often try to interfere with our lives in a variety of ways. When you reflect on your own life, are you able to see any ways that fears have caused you some difficulties? Are you able to easily identify your fears? There are many types of fears such as…
As we travel through the different seasons of our lives, we experience “firsts” and “lasts” often and sometimes even simultaneously. My goal as a woman and as a mother is to try to treasure and find joy in as many of them as I am able to. As a mom, I have been blessed to…